How to Make Him Treat You as the “Prize-to-be-Won” [Part 1]

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Stop making it too easy for him. Make men pursue you and treat you like the “prize-to-be-won”

Stop being so available and eager.

Time to stop selling yourself short. 

Show him that you have a life of your own that you enjoy. 

Make him feel that you have things to do, places to go and people to see. 

I’m a man and am telling you that we NEED to chase you.

In a moment I will reveal some specific action steps that you can take in your interactions with the man you’re seeing (or with men you meet in the future) to turn the tables and start to make him chase.

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The Art of Making Men Chase and Pursue You

The art of making men chase and becoming the prize-to-be-won involves getting a man to work to earn your affection, attention and time.

Look scarce, sought after and once you got a good grasp on his attention strike fear in him that he could lose you if he…

…under appreciates you because some man out there will value you for what your worth.

YOU DETERMINE your worth.

This all starts within yourself. You must believe in yourself and what you have to offer.

Much of this involves finding the RIGHT man for you, someone who you find attractive but compatible with you who fulfills you emotionally and cares about your needs.

Master these powerful techniques to earn a man’s respect and grab his attention, but I also recommend you learn what we want with women on a deeper emotional level. [Watch this video of how to become his secret obsession].

Tips to Make Men Chase and Treat You Like the “Prize-to-Be-Won”

End Conversations First 

No matter how long he wants to keep chatting, you must be the one to end the conversations first. 

Tell him “goodbye” and that you will speak to him later. 

This prevents you from looking eager. 

Let him feel a little disappointed that you ended the conversation. That’s perfect. It builds up his desire to see you. 

Don’t Always Respond to Texts Right Away 

I’m not asking you to play with him here, just if you are kind of busy then don’t respond. 

Sometimes you will respond right away, but I want you to condition him to not expect a response right away. 

He needs to feel that you have other important things going on- this is key to getting a man to pursue.

You want him to feel that his feelings matter to you, but not that you will drop everything you are doing to answer every text or pick up the phone every time he calls. 

Spend Time with Your Girlfriends, Let Him Know It 

You want him to feel that you have a life of your own. And one of the ways you do that is to spend time with your friends and purposely let him know about your plans. 

Sometimes those plans will take you to places where other men will be such as bars, clubs, the beach or even parties. This forces him to respect your boundaries and makes him a little jealous. Because he knows that men will be present and might approach you, also that you can have a good time without him.  

This also serves as a test to see how well he will respect you or if he gets insecure and begins to make ridiculous demands.  

If he gets overly jealous it begins to mistreat you it’s better to know this now than later because this is a very bad sign.  

It’s very common for men to accuse the women they date of cheating without any proof of it.  

Your Mr. Right will be a secure man, a little jealousy is one thing but not want it gets scary. 

Enjoy Hobbies and Find Alone Time 

Maintain your power, give yourself some space. Just because you don’t have plans with friends or work to do doesn’t mean that you will spend time with him. Let’s face it you need your alone time so schedule it in and let him know how important your alone time is. 

One of the biggest ways to come across is very eager is the spend all of your free time with him. even if he wants to don’t do it. Treat your time as a valuable commodity. It’s a treasure, not something easily available. 

Cancel/Reschedule Plans from Time to Time 

You want to make sure you’re with the right guy, correct?  

Then you want to see how much he treasures his time with you.  

When you cancel plans from time-to-time, it increases the value of your together-time.  

The next time you go out he starts to freak out that you might cancel but when you actually go out with him it feels like he won the lottery. 

That’s what you want. You’re his prize, not the other way around. 

Protect Your Schedule, Tell Him When You’re Available 

Make him schedule his time around yours.  

Do not let him get in the habit of you moving the earth and sun to find time with him. 

Tell Him About the Compliments You Get from Guys 

A little jealousy definitely will increase your value in his eyes. 

I can tell you every time that my girlfriend told me about a guy’s attempt to compliment her or hit on her, it made her instantly look more attractive to me.  

It’s some deep psychology that I cannot explain, but it works to make us want you more.  

The key is to make it sound like it’s part of a normal conversation and that you did not enjoy the compliment rather you were just passing along news left something that happened. 

If He Hurts Your Feelings Tell Him, Then Ask for Alone Time 

Make sure that he behaves. If he does something that hurts your feelings then inform him of what he’s done then ask for time alone. 

Make him sweat and worried that he could lose you. 

Summary of How to Become the Prize-to-Be-Won

These are just some examples of how to increase your value in his eyes and make him chase. You want to be the prize-to-be-won. 

And you can’t be the prize-to-be-won. 

If you’re always available and you seem too eager to spend time with him. He must feel that you have a life of your own and that you do not always need to be around him.  

Make him work for your affection and approval. Make him stress over possibly losing you and to do everything he can to keep you interested in seeing him. 

Here is one of the best dating/relationship guides on how to make men worship you and treat you like the prize-to-be-won

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