[PROs/CONs] His Secret Obsession Review by James Bauer: “the Hero Instinct” and Decoding Men’s Mixed Signals

This “His Secret Obsession Review” could change your life…TODAY…

…or you could miss out on the opportunity to understand the reasons us men choose long-term partners and why we run from the rest.

I honestly feel James Bauer’s book offers women an unfair advantage over men.

Point-after-point hit the mark as I read it. I identified with practically all of them.

Understanding why “The Hero Instinct” works and how to take advantage of it to make a man fall in love with you is worth the purchase price of this book alone!

All the women you see around you who have a trail of men chasing them naturally understand the concepts of this book.

It’s pretty simple if you think about it.

If you two people in a relationship know what makes the other happy and then actually do it then they’ll want to stay together.

No duh, right?

Then why are so many people unhappy in relationships.

Because they THINK they know what makes the other happy, but do NOT know.

Yes, it takes two in a relationship to make it work.

And in James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession” you will see our side, the man’s side.

If you are open to understanding what makes us choose the women who make us happy enough to ask to marry us then keep reading.

If you think all men are pigs then maybe you should just become a farmer and raise us.

Feel free to keep dating your way and do not read this “His Secret Obsession Review” any further.

Want to know how “the Hero Instinct” makes him chase you?

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“His Secret Obsession”


James Bauer, Relationship Coach and owner of BeIrrestible.com

His Other Popular eBooks

“What Men Secretly Want”


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His Secret Obsession Review: My Opinion and Overall Score

The most complete, actionable dating book for women I’ve read.

And my “His Secret Obsession Review” reveals why.

If you want to know both what to say and do, as well as, why it works to find and keep your perfect man, then look no further than “His Secret Obsession”.

James Bauers downloadable book and bonus reveal the deepest male mind secrets you could know. To a degree I feel like I am betraying my fellow men by representing a book that allows women the power to hack into our minds. James “Hero Instinct” hits the mark, it is so true with how we feel.

Some women honestly just get how men work and know what to say and how to say it to make us chase and commit to them. These women understand how to add meaning to our lives instead of changing who we want to be.

They also have the confidence that we will not run away and disappear.

And do you know why these women have that confidence?

Because they understand the concepts taught in this book.

For example, James reveals the scientific reasons behind the message ingrained in our DNA passed to each new generation that instructs us how to please women. And if we do not abide by this message that you will seek a man who does.

Do you know how much power and confidence you would have in relationships if you had this message in your hands?

Learn to hack into our male minds and decode this message and you have the formula to make us feel complete and want to commit to you long-term.

Purchase your copy of “His Secret Obsession” by James Bauer. Start improving your dating success today!

As I read “His Secret Obsession” I couldn’t stop thinking, “So that’s why I feel this way about relationships and women.”

My “His Secret Obsession Review” Score 9/10

The RISK of NOT Following the Advice in His Secret Obsession

If you go against the grain with the formulas and techniques taught in this book then you fight our natural way of feeling and thinking as men.

And do you know what happens then?

We disappear because we feel ashamed of who we are or we simply do NOT like being around you.

Us men are natural hunters.

That’s how society has taught us since the tribal days when we hunted wild animals to bring back home. We simply will hold out until we find someone we feel happy spending our entire lives with.

James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession” works. It’s been several months since I read it and I can’t stop myself from spotting the women out there who get these concepts and the clueless women who don’t and scare men off.

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Who Should Read “His Secret Obsession” by James Bauer

  • For you if you want a direct route to taking on a more active role in the attraction stage of a relationship.
  • Women who want to know how to get a man to commit and stay passionately in love.
  • You can digest several deep, psychology concepts.
  • Someone who worries that they will never find a man who falls head over heals for them.
  • For a woman who wants a man to passionately pursue her, to romance her. She wants a man who treats her happiness as his greatest priority.
  • Women who have trouble hanging on to and attracting men.
  • Women who have trouble keeping men interested. She’s afraid he will lose interest after intimacy.
  • Women in long-term relationships where the spark has died.
  • A woman with a slight narcissistic desire to be a man’s obsession.
  • You do not see men as pigs (well, at least not all of them), instead you separate the immature “commitment-phobes” from the relationship-oriented men.

Who Should NOT Read “His Secret Obsession”

  • You expect and demand that men do all the work.
  • Women who refuse to accept (or believe) men need to feel like heroes, that helping you (at least feeling like we are helping) fulfills us.
  • Your fear of losing your independence is greater than your desire to get along with men.
  • Women who do not want to accept reality of what they may see as simple minded male concepts listed in this eBook.
  • You value your career more than your relationships.
  • You fear rejection due to the pain of previous break-ups (at the bottom of this post I recommend an alternative product and direct you to its detailed review).

My “His Secret Obsession Review” PROs/CONs

You want an inside look at His Secret Obsession before you spend your money on the purchase. So to be fair scan over my PROs and CONs.

Remember you do receive a lengthy 60-day-money-back, no-questions-asked guarantee. You also receive the bonus eBook/audio “Secret Text Message Formulas” which you can put the tips to used today.

No dating guide is perfect or made for everyone.

Unlike other James Bauer reviews on the internet I identify legitimate negatives so it leaves you no surprises if you decide to buy your own copy of His Secret Obsession.

  • His Secret Obsession starts with interesting, attention-grabbing story regarding a secret powerful text message.
  • Concepts taught are adaptable to your style and situation.
  • Offers actionable-advice early in the book. Short 12-word and 4-word text messages to entice any man to respond.
  • Reveals our most important needs in a relationship and our lives to feel true love with a woman.
  • James reveals the secrets of what some women do that makes them irresistible…and what others do to send us running away.
  • Bases some of his advice on a psychological studies (example page 122).
  • Provides advice for the different relationship stages (Attraction Stage, Re-spark Stage, etc.)
  • Encourages you not to fight our innate desires and need to impress women. This is where “the Hero Instinct” comes along.
  • [Bonus eBook/audio]Secret Text Message Formulas” provide ready-to-use-right-now text message techniques to grab a guy’s attention and make it impossible to ignore you.

  • He repeats points too many times. I understand that James wants to get his point across, but it risks confusion.
  • Any and all men will relate to his “Hero Instinct” theory, but not all men relate to his military analogies.
  • Too many similar-sounding terminology.
  • Lengthy book. Will have to read it at least a few times to have many concepts sink in.
  • You will have to swallow your girl pride at times. If you revolt against men’s desire for feminine qualities than you will have trouble seeing eye-to-eye with Jame’s points.

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[Inside Peek] His Secret Obsession Review 

Most Useful Modules of this James Bauer Book 

Part I: How the Hero Instinct Works

Module 1: The Secret Longing of Every Man (Page 14) 

Learn to channel your man’s deepest passions to capture his heart.

Module 2: The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit (Page 25)

Men want to feel like your hero, but they fear you rejecting them and feeling like a failure. Learn how to invite him to “save” you.

Module 5: Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready” (page 55)

A man will forgo chasing his desires for love in order to create an identity for himself he can feel proud of.

Module 9: How to Become His Secret Obsession (page 102)

How to become his purpose. Become irresistible to the point he needs you to feel complete.

Module 15: The Secret “Currency” Of Happy Relationships (page 161)

Learn when and how to cast your “hero instinct” signal.  Strengthen the bond between you and your man, or learn to win the heart of the man you desire.

Module 16: The “I Owe You” Signal (page 165)

Take advantage of the human nature quirk psychologists call “the foot in the door effect”.  Learn how to convince your man to agree to a tiny request. Then convince him to agree to the bigger request you actually want.

Module 17: The “Damsel in Distress” Signal (page 168)

Master the ability to send out a call for help and he will come running to your rescue. He can’t resist.

Text Message Formulas (page 182)

How “Curiosity Phrases” Can Keep Him Engaged (page 198)

Hack into the power of creating curiosity.  Get him to chase you through texts at any given moment.

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I hope you found my His Secret Obsession Review satisfactory and that it helped you decide if the guide will help you achieve your relationship goals or not.

If you feel ready to purchase your own copy then proceed to click the button below.

You will have 60 days to get a refund by contacting Clickbank. (You will receive the contact information after you purchase or visit Clickbank.com).

I feel confident that you will change your dating and relationship life after applying Jame’s concepts and actionable advice.

However, I recommend reading the guide at least twice cover-to-cover.

Also refer back to specific sections to get a firm grasp on the many deep insights into our male minds.

Put the Hero Instinct into practice today…

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Alternative Choice: “Why He Disappeared” by Evan Marc Katz

My “His Secret Obsession Review” did not cover one important area for you to learn how to avoid heartbreak.

Perhaps the most popular dating coach for women, Evan Marc Katz, shows you how to separate the players from the men who want true love in his guide “Why He Disappeared”.

James Bauer gives you tips how to flirt and connect with a man emotionally, but how do you know if you are wasting your time on the wrong guys?

“Why He Disappeared”, also shares more insights on how to increase your chances to find a man who wants a relationship.

But it also instructs you how to decode male misbehavior, how to let go emotionally of these commitment-phobic men and respectfully break them off.

Read this detailed review here of “Why He Disappeared”.

Find Out Why Men Disappear…

His Secret Obsession Review- alternate choice dating guide

Watch this Video from Evan Marc Katz

I recommend both books if you seek to find a man to marry or increase the emotionally intensity with your current boyfriend. Both cover concepts that the other does not. Both come from renown dating coaches written by men for women.

Over prepared is better than under-prepared.

His Secret Obsession Review [Checklist/Scores]

The Best Dating Guides Should Have These Items…

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Actionable Advice
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Real-life stories from Dating Coach’s Clients
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Tips to Avoid Heartache (What NOT to Do to Succeed in Dating)
Solve Problem Book Claims to Solve
Easy-to-Differentiate One Point from the Other
Tips to Achieve Success at the Various Relationship Stages
Helpful Bonuses Included
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Sticks to Points, Few Tangents
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