Art of Making Men Chase and Becoming the “Prize”: Show Appreciation

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Showing appreciation when we work hard to earn your affection can train us men to chase and treat you like the prize-to-be-won.

Reward us for treating you the way you deserve and the good, quality, respectful men out there will move heaven and earth to please you.

Because we get an emotional high when we make you happy.

In this blog post we will look at the little things you can say that make him chase.  

Of course, these suggestions only pertain to sweet romantic emotional connection, but if you also seek how to connect with men sexually and get a little naughty then…

…check out this dating coach guide Language of Desire.

(Warning! It’s not for everyone and not every relationship- just the open-minded).

My Wish for You

I want you to get the treatment you deserve and want.  

This is much more likely to happen if the power is more in your favor.  

What I mean is that you want your man to make a bigger effort to please you than the other way around.  

This is part of what it means to have a guy chase.  

He works hard to earn your affection, attention, and fears to lose you. 

In this post I am NOT sharing anything enlightening or earth-shattering.

On the contrary, my suggestions are very simple and basic, but very effective to connect with us on an emotional level and will have a lasting effect on him.

We will look at how to respond to his respectful, gentleman-like gestures in ways that attract him even more to you. 

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Little Things that Get Him to CONTINUE to Chase and Treat You Like the “Prize-to-be-Won” 

Reward him for attempting to make you happy or when he expresses his affection towards you, but don’t overdo it. 

Show your appreciation for his good intentions. 

You want to condition him to continue to make the effort to please you. 

If you really matter to him, how hard is he willing to work? 

After He Brings You Gifts 

Acknowledge his cute gesture and express how adorable it is and how it makes you feel. 

Then he will continue to make the effort to please you because he likes how it feels to make you smile and to touch your heart.  

“Awe, that is so sweet. You’re so adorable. Thank you. I like it so much.” 

He Acts Chivalrous  

Part of finding and keeping your ideal partner is to find the man who makes an effort to treat you the way you want to be treated. 

If he opens the door for you, offers to carry something heavy or anything he is acting chivalrous and shows you that he cares express your appreciation.

He works hard to look out for your well-being and you should acknowledge his good intentions. 

You do NOT need his help, but he wants to help, and you should reward him for it, even if just with a small gesture of gratitude. 

As men we want to feel needed, we want to feel that we can protect or take care of you in some way.  

This gives us value and to a certain extent makes us feel like little heroes to you. We want to be important in your life. 

You can say something as simple as, “Awe, such a gentleman. I didn’t know they still existed. Good to see that they do.” 

Expresses Affection 

When he expresses his affection through his words this is a way for him to communicate that you matter to him. 

Make sure that you acknowledge this so that he knows that you appreciate him. 

Let him know how important he makes you feel. 

Say something simple like, “When you tell me that  you miss me I feel so lucky to have you.” 

Pays Attention to Details 

Let’s face it one of the biggest complaints about us men is that we don’t pay attention to the details.  

Therefore, when he does, make sure that you thank him.  

This encourages him to continue to look for the things that matter to you most, whether that means your favorite food, your favorite cocktail, certain dates throughout the year that matter to you most, and practically anything that you like that you want him to notice.  

You can say something as simple as, “It makes me feel so special when you notice the things that matter to me most. I really like that about you. Thank you sweetie for noticing.” 

Thanking him is one of the most effective ways to touch his heart and train him to desire to do everything in his power to please you. 

Holds Your Hand or Touches You 

Act of him taking your hand is his way of saying that he chooses you. Or even an affectionate caress of his hand on your back or holding you around the waist is his way of bringing you closer to him.  

Make sure that you express how this gesture makes you feel with something simple like, “Sweetie when you hold me like this it makes me feel like I’m yours. I like feeling like your princess. You make me feel so protected.” 

These are very powerful words to a man and they touch our hearts like you have no idea.  

We want to feel like your protector and that you have chosen us over all other men. 

Summary How Expressing Appreciation Can Make Men Chase and Treat You Like the Prize

Don’t overdo it, express your appreciation just enough to make him feel cherished and motivated to work his ass off to please you.

Then he’ll do everything in his power to find more ways to relive that moment of making you smile.

If you want tips to make him obsess over please you sexually you than learn the sexual secrets that he fears to reveal in the Secret Survey by dating coach Michael Fiore. 

All of these simple but very effective techniques establish you as the “prize-to-be-won“. 

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