[FREE Download] How to Meet Men Offline and Engage: 5 Conversation Starter Tips

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If you want to learn how to meet men offline in real-life situations offline then you must master the art of engagement, but how do you do that?

After all, you fear to talk to them in the first place.

What do you say? What conversation starters can you use?

What do you say to keep him talking?

Can you get him interested enough to get him to want to exchange numbers?

And it’s not just you, us men also fear how to conduct and engage in conversation with you.

But if you want to meet men offline in any circumstance then someone’s got to make the first move or you’ll end up regretting not doing anything at all.

Do yourself a favor.

Don’t live with regret.

Here in this post, I will offer some recommendations on how to meet men offline in conversations ANYWHERE.

Then find an advice-packed 58-page FREE guide on some advanced techniques to strike up a conversation with men and how to get a date at the bottom.

So…

What is Women’s Biggest Fear to Meet Men Offline in Real-Life Situations?

I think it’s fear of scaring him away because you think that you have nothing interesting to say.

At least that’s what my friend and dating coach Camille Virginia from MasterOfflineDating.com told me the other day during our phone call.

But I think that this stems from not understanding men and their needs, goals and desires.

And when you don’t understand what we want in life or in relationships with women then obviously…

You won’t know what to talk about, right?

They buy into the myths of what society says men want and focus on ways to connect with men based on these myths.

You end up talking yourself out of inviting him over to talk to you or striking up a conversation yourself.

You will find a lot of different opinions online; some people agree and some people disagree. So, the choice is yours what to believe, but some of those myths go like these…

Myths about Men’s Preferences for Women and Relationships

Myth # 1: Men Just Want Sex and a Trophy Girlfriend

Myth # 2:  Men Don’t Like Romance

Myth # 3:  Men Do Not Feel Emotions or Express Them

Myth # 4: We Only Care About Physical Beauty and Not Inner Beauty

Myth # 5: We Just Want the Single Life to Hang Out with Our Friends and Do Whatever We Want and Whenever We Want

Myth # 6:  We Want to Hold Off Getting Married For as Long as Possible

Myth # 7: Men Don’t Fall Hard Emotionally for Women

Myth # 8: All Men Know How to Act Like Gentlemen but Just Choose Not To

Myth # 9: Most Men Just Want to Hook Up and Have No-Strings-Attached Sex

Myth # 10: Men Do Not Like When Women Express Their Feelings

[Poll] Which Is the Biggest Myth About Men?

In this article I will not go into details about each of the above myths.

I think we can agree that many of these are spot-on, though.

But in this article I would rather look at the deal-breaking mistakes that you make when you buy into the myths regarding men in relationships.

And then we can look at some simple conversation starter steps to take while you run around town to meet men offline.

These mistakes sound off red-alert alarms in his head and scare him away because they create a mismatch with his life needs and relationship needs.

He’s basically saying to himself, “She’s not the one. So let’s move on. Who’s next?”

And here’s the scariest part…

You actually might be perfect for each other, but instead, you set off warning signs in his mind and now he may not give you another look because you miss the point on these…

[Jump straight to the 5 Conversation Starter Tips]

5 Reasons You Lack the Skills to Engage with Men

1. You neglect what matters most to him and to make him feel special

We will ALWAYS choose a girlfriend based on how she makes us feel around her. Do we feel comfortable being the best version of ourselves?

Does she notice and admire the same qualities that most men take pride in about themselves such as:

• Acting heroic
• A  hard worker
• A problem-solver
• Adventurous
• Talented
• Creative
• Courageous
• Strong

2. Instead, you might accidentally trigger negative feelings he might feel bad about himself.

Avoid bringing up topics or making statements that would make him feel:

• Indecisive
• Doesn’t pay attention to details
• Cheap
• Lacks opinion
• Weak in character
• Boring
• Antisocial
• And above all… creepy

3. You don’t display preferential characteristics he looks for in a girlfriend.

Coming across inattentive and focusing the conversation on your achievements and accolades would definitely turn a guy off, but so would the following characteristics during a conversation with him if you came across:

• Argumentative with people in your life
• Too serious
• Don’t laugh much
• Don’t smile much
• Seem dramatic to him
• Appear to lacks empathy and sympathy for others
• You try to show off and instead look unauthentic and fake
• Don’t appear to enjoy acting playful and flirtatious with him

4. AND THEN WORSE…you accidentally Express Red Flag characteristics that he DEFINITELY Does NOT want in a girlfriend.

It’s one thing to not draw him into you and so that he finds you irresistible and cannot stand the thought of leaving with your number.  It’s a whole other thing to flat out scare him and lose ANY chance whatsoever of connecting with him. That’s how he’d feel if you came across:

• Controversial
• Controlling
• Judgmental
• Uptight
• Needy
• Clingy
• Overly Opinionated
• Obnoxious
• Overly Competitive
• Belittling

5. You’re judgmental and don’t give him a real chance.

I don’t mean that you come across judgmental, rather you find EVERYTHING wrong with EVERY guy. You think this is cute and makes you “hard to get”.

The Truth: you make yourself IMPOSSIBLE to get and, therefore, have no chance of learning how to connect with men.

No these are not all of them, just five.

And yes, sometimes you only have one chance to create a good impression.

Of course, this is a simple, shortlist, but it will alert you to what you might need to change or what to steer clear of.

Now let’s look at how to turn it around.

Five Simple Steps to Meet Men Offline and Engage with Them (Today)

You cannot control if a guy will like you back, but you can certainly control giving yourself a chance.

Follow these five simple steps to approach a guy and exchange contact information at the end.

Complete these steps within 3-5 minutes then politely excuse yourself.

Your only goal now is to create the opportunity to speak with him later.

Aim to make him feel comfortable talking to you and portray genuine interest in what he says.

No matter what the situation is, whether at work talking with a guy for the first time or when you meet someone during the day while you’re out of the house, the concepts will still remain the same.

Display confident body language, have fun,  show him that you enjoy talking to him, and don’t fear to show that you find him attractive.

Our biggest fear is making a move on you to show our interest just to find out you don’t like us back.

Eliminate our fear: make it obvious that you are attracted to us.

Follow these Five Steps to Meet Men Offline ANYWHERE and start a conversation:

1. Get within close distance so he can see and hear you.

2. Smile, lock eye-contact while talking. Display inviting, positive, and friendly body language.

3. Start the conversation with something you observe on him or in the surrounding area.

You can choose a playful, cute conversation starter or pay him an authentic compliment.

4. Follow up with a question based on the conversation starter you chose.

If you start with something flirty, follow up with a flirty question. If you offer a sincere compliment then ask a question about what you said. Next introduce yourself and offer a friendly, confident handshake.

5. Observe his reaction and see if he reciprocates.  

If he does then you’ve got him. Asking permission to speak with him later is a done deal.  Whether you extend an invitation to meet up with him again later or ask to friend him on Facebook, it’s a guarantee.

Of course, for now, we don’t know if he has a girlfriend but always looks for the ring on his finger to see if he’s married before you begin the conversation.

I swear, these 5 simple steps will work, of course, it won’t work all the time because not EVERY guy is going to like you. And that’s fine because you just want to find the one guy you like who likes you back.

HOWEVER, if you’d like more in-depth training to meet men offline and learn to invite them to come to you while avoiding rejection then I have someone in mind who can help you.

I’d like to refer you to my friend and dating coach for women Camille Virginia from MasterOfflineDating.com who specializes in meeting men in real life situations.

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I just finished reading my friend Camille’s 58-page guide how to almost effortlessly flirt and meet single men offline in real-life situations.

Honestly, I’m shocked that a FREE guide contains such detailed and powerful the tips. Plus she includes the audio version and a cheat sheet to go with it.

Think I’m full of s—, check out what Camille’s free Dating App Detox package teaches you.

What’s Included in Camille’s Dating App Detox guide:

• How to get guys’ attention and invite him to approach you (ANYWHERE) you go.
• The BIGGEST turn offs to block men from approaching you … and how to resolve them
• Example situations and places where and how guys approached her
• The strategies she applies to meet single men offline in real-life situations and…
• Real-life scenarios to meet men offline around town to try out yourself like how to meet single men in a grocery store
• How to smile and flirt when you aren’t in the mood.
• The #1 most successful, flirt move and how to pull it off even if you’re too shy to try it out
• Technique and real-life situation how to respond when a guy approaches you…and the #1 way to kill the moment (you’ve done it a thousand times I promise).
• And a list of common ice breakers guys use and how to respond to each (like “Wow, such great weather today!”)
• Ways to break the ice when he doesn’t even notice you … without risk of rejection
• Tips how to keep the conversation going…and HOW TO GET HIM NUMBER
• Several interview videos with guest expert dating and relationship coaches who reveal secrets how to meet and attract men on specific topics such as French-flirting styles, image makeovers, flirtatious body language, simple ice breaker examples

So no dating guide I’ve ever seen is perfect, but this one is darn close.

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Yeah! All that … for free.

These tips are useful for me too as guy.

I know that me and her are friends and that you might think I’m just trying to help a friend out, BUT…

…don’t make that mistake.

And yes, if you apply the tips and find the success you’ve been looking for you might decide to join her group coaching sessions.

I would get compensation for that, but as always, I search far and wide for products and services I strongly believe in and this is one of them.

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