If your spouse is living or working in another city it is easy to get nervous about them being involved in a long distance affair, isn’t it? While you are home taking care of the household or watching the kids the unfortunate truth is that your relationship is vulnerable..
With the long distance gap the temptation to cheat is higher since it would be so easy to get away with it without being caught. And let’s face it, if you are the spouse on the road the lack of physical contact you are accustomed to regularly having with your spouse is missing.
When you enter into a relationship you blindly hope that they will have the same commitment level that you have. There are no guarantees, you take an emotional risk that they will not cheat and get involved with someone else. Sometimes you only have your gut feeling to rely on to uncover any wrongdoing. Well, what if this “sixth sense” is not enough? Then what? How can you handle the horrible fear of your spouse you care about is getting involved intimately with someone else behind you back?
Want to know some advanced techniques how to catch cheating spouse in a long distance affair?
Fear and Guilt Over Long Distance Affair
One of the first things you might experience is fear and guilt. You fear what you do not know. You fear being humiliated or others knowing about your spouse’s affair while you know nothing. You fear thinking about the gut-wrenching notion that your spouse does not desire you anymore, that you are “good enough” anymore and that they desire to be with someone else. And how can you avoid the guilt of losing faith in your relationship and doubting your spouse’s lack of integrity and character. What if you are mistaken? Are they having a long distance affair? You don’t know for sure, do you?
Techniques to Catch a Spouse in Long Distance Relationship
It seems that you have limited options of catching your spouse while living far away, but there’s still some possible ideas that could be effective to determine if your suspicions of their long distance affair are correct.
If you get the chance to travel to visit them you could place tracking software on their laptop, place GPS or digital recording software in or around their car. From there you could match up their stories about where they have gone with what the devices show. This will tell you if they are lying. Another highly effective way to catch them in the act of cheating is to hire a private investigator who could track their movements over a period of time.
Some strategies to implement around the house in between their return trips home could be use semen detection kits, cell phone tracking software to read deleted texts or study a bit about body language in order to detect if they are lying.
Do enough research and you will find resources, methods or gadgets to employ and customize to your situation.
It may require mental toughness and willingness to try. How much do you want to move onto the next step in your life? Do you feel like you are being held back?
Do you have access to their email account or cell phone bill? Do they ever leave their phone unattended?
Do they ever leave receipts lying around? Cheaters often buy and receive gifts from their partner. It may seem that long-distance relationships leave you feeling alone and marooned, often in more than one way, but there are a number of gadgets and techniques to catch a cheating spouse you can employ and tailor to fit the specifics of your situation.