Top Flirting Tips to Attract a Guy at Work and Get a Date

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Your heart won’t stop beating every time he walks past you and his musky, masculine scented cologne tantalizes your nostrils. Today is your lucky day because I will share with you some insider, male-mind hack flirting tips to attract a guy you like at work.

Wait. Maybe I shouldn’t share secrets how to overpower us men.

😉

OK, I will.

You know why I will crack and assist you in learning how to hook and reel him in?

Because, damn, sometimes it would be nice for the girl to make a move on us too.

Of course, I still prefer to make the first move, but there’s no reason to wait for us every time.

The advantage of these flirting tips to attract a guy at work is that you will see him often and can build on the previous action and things you’ve told him.

Effective, respectful and cute flirting gets our attention and warms us up to picturing ourselves with you out on a date.

But keep in mind that these tips are not for anyone.

Only some women with certain traits and the right objective will succeed in pulling off how to attract a guy in the office, connect with him via text, chat or phone call and then land a date with him.

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Who Can Pull Off these Flirting Tips to Attract a Guy at the Job?

Belief in yourself that you are a wanted woman.
Confidence that you can keep him interested (know what topics to discuss with him, your sense of humor, etc.)
Know that you are fun to be around.
Do NOT fear flirting via text and body language (sexy but ALL respectful- you’ll see).
Limit or avoid self-labels (“I’m too (fill in the blank here- tall, short, extra padding, thin, boring, ugly, etc).
Desire to understand men’s needs.
Don’t bash men when they don’t like you back.

Are you up to the challenge?

If you do not have confidense in yourself then you will struggle to attract a guy anywhere.

Also keep in mind you do NOT know an individual guy’s physical preferences are of women. So don’t beat yourself up and assume that he won’t like you. Trust me, we are NOT looking for perfect curves and looks.

Men are NOT as picky as you think about physical beauty, BUT we are very picky about a woman’s personality when it comes to choosing a partner.

Very picky!

However, if you would like to get over some of these above mentioned emotionally hurdles then I would like to invite you to subscribe to my 7-part email series: “Understanding What Men in Relationships: Get the First Date with Him, a Second and Keep Him Interested”

I firmly believe that the more you understand what matters to us most when choosing that one special girl to call our girlfriend, and potentially wife later, the more you improve your chances to find a compatible guy to share mutual true love.

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Moving on…

Before we get started, you will also need these…

Three Crucial Steps to Flirt and Attract a Guy on the Job

1) Of course, find out through conversation, or any means possible, if he is single.
In natural conversation you will ask him about his favorite things to do or places to go. Then you simply ask him who he likes to go with, friends from work, girlfriend, long-time friends, etc? He will tell you if he is single. I HIGHLY recommend finding this out before you start flirting with him. He might have a girlfriend, but be still willing to cheat. Don’t mess with guy willing to cheat.

2) Test different flirting tips and techniques described here in this post as well as in my other posts:

3) Then sit back to read the signs that he likes you back and wants to see or hear from you more often.

And with these steps, the correct mindsets listed above and the techniques in the following list you should be able to pull off how to masterfully attract a guy at work, talk with him outside of work and get that first date.

Simple Flirting Tips for Ladies to Attract a Guy at Work

1. Make Eye Contact and Smile

Treat your eyes and smile like a magic wand that cast a spell on any guy you like. Now pay attention por favor, it’s the combination of both, a confident smile WHILE making direct eye contact.
Young, old, extra padding, skinny, short, tall, etc. A girl who can pull this off OWNS me and EVERY man.
Lock eyes, smile, look away, walk away.
You flirt you! 😉
You got this.

2. Compliment to Boost His Self-Esteem … (on one of the following mentioned in my email series)

Think character qualities, respectful physical features, admirable accomplishments, interesting talents, etc. Get the entire list in the email series.
I’ve received compliments on all of the following and I still think about them after all these years.

-Cute laugh
-Color of eyes
-His thoughtfulness
-Manly walk
-His special talents or achievements that impress you (musical, second language, career awards, academic)
-Generosity towards those around him
-Smile
-Something he helped you with
-Ability to handle stressful situations

3. Ask About His Favorite Things to Do and Express Fascination and Interest

When you compliment or show interest towards his passions, interests and hobbies it makes him feel interesting, smart and good about himself. This is the essense of flirting and to create deep emotional connection with a man. We choose partners based on how she makes us feel when she’s around us.

4. Strategically Enter His Personal Space … Turn Up the Heat

How does he react when you get close smile and look at him? What does he do when you ask if you can fix his collar or tie?
I loved writing this post about how to use body language to attract a guy. Touch him in safe, respectful places to see how he handles it (forearm, shoulder, lower back, hand).
I’m getting turned on just writing this.

5. Ask for Help or His Opinions

Men love to solve problems. One of the biggest relationship busters for us men is when we feel useless to our partners. We want to feel needed and we will bond with you if you ask for our assistance.

Even something simple like asking what colors look good on you or to help you get something off the top shelf, then thanking us are simple, but go a long way.
After asking a few times for his help then express your gratitude on his continued help and the fact that you can always rely on him.

Fast forward a few days or even weeks after you’ve tried some of these.

What do your senses say?
Do you think he likes you?
Do you feel he would want to talk to you outside of work?

If he shows signs of liking you back then you have warmed him up to enjoy speaking with you outside of the job.

Simple Methods to Contact Him Outside of Work

Say he’s fun to talk to and ask him to contact you on FB or give him your number.
Message him on FB and ask about something that happened at work. Then turn become more conversational.

How About the Getting the First Date?

Of course, if you both start flirting via text or chatting, then naturally he will ask you. You can even hint that it would be fun to go to a place he mentioned he likes with him.

I have even had a girl say, “When are you taking me to dinner?”

Even a shy woman can pull this off if you’ve effectively flirted to attract a guy at work you like leading up to the moment of action to discuss dates.

If you’d like to learn more flirting tips for women to attract a guy at work, coffee shop, other places and in-person or via texts then subscribe to my 7-part email series: “Understanding What Men in Relationships: Get the First Date with Him, a Second and Keep Him Interested” or pick up a copy of the FREE eBook that Unlocks the #1 Secret that Attracts Men to You on a Deeper Level.