20 Soulmate Signs: How to Recognize True Love?

Which soulmate signs will your future true love possess?

I mean that is what you want, isn’t it?

A soulmate? You want to find The One who you can spend the rest of your life with, right?

So do I.

Despite going through an affair, abandonment, break-up I still believe in finding my soulmate.

No matter how painful my heartbreak I still want someone who will believe in true love just like I do.

But what if you fall for the wrong person, yet again?

Do you have time to waste on another long relationship? Or a series of short ones?

What Is A Soulmate? What Matters Most in True Love?

Probably we all have different opinions about what a soulmate should look like.

And while we do find it exciting to meet someone new and to fall in love, who really wants to live their life alone?

First let’s attempt to define what a soulmate is.

It appears that the internet varies in their opinion of the definition of a soulmate.

On the website ForeverConscious.com I found an interesting comparison between soulmate and life partner.

I quote:

Soul Mate: Someone who is aligned with your soul and is sent to challenge, awaken and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend to a higher level of consciousness and awareness. Once the lesson has been learnt, physical separation usually occurs.

Life Partner: A companion, a friend, a stable and secure individual who you can lean on, trust and depend on to help you through life. There is a mutual feeling of love and respect and you are both in sync with each other’s needs and wants.”

Another interesting description of a soulmate I found from a psychologist who I admire, Dr. John Gottman.  He started the Gottman Institute of Seattle.

Dr. Gottman believes that the most important soulmate signs are how you effective you communicate with each other, how well you get along and how you adjust to each other over time to do what it takes to make the relationship work.

Read the article here regarding the relationship between compatibility and soulmates.

Gottman believes you consciously decide to make the relationship compatible.

And whether this section offered any insight into defining a soulmate or not in the end you seek true love.

You have grown tired of losing time on dead-end relationships.

No More Games. No More Lost Time. Next Time You Want Mrs. or Mr. Right

The right person, but the wrong circumstances.

The right circumstances, but the wrong person.

Or a long list of conditions that just did not work out in your favor.

And now after all these years you have begun to wonder if you will ever find the one true love who will stick by your side through thick and thin.

But you fall in love so easily.

And now you fear you cannot even protect yourself from yourself.

So what soulmate signs will signal that you finally find the right one?

Let’s take a crack at that answer together.

And at the end please share your opinion on which characteristics matter the most to you.

20 Soulmate Signs: How Accurate Can You Identify True Love?

1. You’re Best Friends

Friends celebrate victory and good times together and reconcile fast.

2. Give-First Attitude

They give without expecting anything in return because they deeply care about your well-being.

3. Understand and (Truly) Accept Your Love Language

Gift giving, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service and physical touch. He or she knows which one you have most affinity to and how love you for it.

4. Does Not Try to Change You

You know you’ve met Mr. Right or Mrs. Right when they accept you for who you are and do not try to change you to suit their needs.

5. Sexually Compatible (or agreeing to wait)

Unequal sex drives will lead to much disappointment and resentment, especially if one of you has a super high sex drive. For Christians who wish to wait then as long as you both agree to wait then you will live in harmony.

6. Mutual Future Plans

If he or she matches your level of ambition then you will respect each other more easily.

7. Does Not Run from Arguments, Settles Them

Secrets kill relationships. When disputes come up you want soulmate signs of someone who will handle them quickly and effectively.

8. Brings Best Out of You

Around your ideal partner you should feel comfortable acting your natural, best self

9. In-this-Together Attitude

Your true love will sacrifice things they want for the better of the team. If what they desire causes damage to the relationship they gladly give it up.

10. Unconditional Support

No jealousy, just love and desire to improve your well-being. They truly want to see you happy.

11. Strong When Apart (Not Emotionally Co-dependent)

Time apart will happen and when it does your relationship does not fall apart. Your ideal partner will know how to entertain and take care of themselves. They will also not feel jealous or fear that someone will take you away from them.

12. Emotional Timing

You might have compatible personalities, but they may not be emotionally ready to commit to a relationship at this time.

13. Stability Timing

Emotionally they are ready, they possess most or all these other soulmate signs on this list, yet financially or in their career they are a mess. This problem will come back to haunt the relationship soon enough if not fixed.

14. Empathetic and Sympathetic to Each Other’s Struggles

Your potential soulmate not only understands how you feel they feel bad when you hurt. It bothers him or her when you struggle.

15. Accept Each Other’s Imperfections, Opinions and Differences

The person who will become your soulmate one day will prefer you have imperfections because they make you unique. They value your own opinions and different viewpoints.

16. Steer Clear of Insulting, Emotional Manipulation, Threats

When things do not go their way, in order for someone to be your soulmate, they will not turn to manipulative mind games to get what they want. Secure people do not insult, threat or resort to pressure to gain an advantage.

17. Apologize When Appropriate

We all will make mistakes and hurt our partners, but a soulmate would know when to apologize to reconnect, even sometimes when they are in the right.

18. Their Presence Soothes and Relaxes You

When you spend time with your soulmate all your stress goes away. Even after you spend many years with them they rarely cause friction between you too. They hate drama just like you should.

19. Clears Up Confusion and Avoids Friction Whenever Possible

Your true love will not fear clarifying what they said or how they feel.  He or she will also proactively head off trouble before it begins.

20. They Challenge You to Excel and Improve for Your Well-Being

Your soulmate will know your limitations, talents and skills. Then they will push you to achieve your best based your abilities because they want you to live to the fullest.

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