If you want to learn how to meet men offline in real life situations offline then you must master the art of engagement, but how do you do that? After all, you fear talking to them in the first place. What do you say? What conversation starters can you use? What do you say to keep him talking? Can you get him interested enough to get him to want to exchange numbers? And it’s not just you, us men also fear how to conduct and engage in conversation with you. But if you want to meet men offline in any circumstance then someone’s got to make the first move or you’ll end up regretting not doing anything at all. Do yourself a favor. Don’t live with regret. Here in this post I will offer some recommendations how to meet men offline in conversations ANYWHERE. Then find an advice-packed 58-page FREE guide on some advanced techniques to strike up a conversation with men and how to get a date at the bottom. So…
I think it’s fear of scaring him away because you think that you have nothing interesting to say. At least that’s what my friend and dating coach Camille Virginia from MasterOfflineDating.com told me the other day during our phone call. But I think that this stems from not understanding men and their needs, goals and desires. And when you don’t understand what we want in life or in relationships with women then obviously… You won’t know what to talk about, right? They buy into the myths of what society says men want and focus on ways to connect with men based on these myths. You end up talking yourself out of inviting him over to talk to you or striking up a conversation yourself. You will find a lot of different opinions online; some people agree and some people disagree. So, the choice is yours what to believe, but some of those myths go like these…
In this article I will not go into details about each of the above myths. I think we can agree that many of these are spot-on, though. But in this article I would rather look at the deal-breaking mistakes that you make when you buy into the myths regarding men in relationships. And then we can look at some simple conversation starter steps to take while you run around town to meet men offline. These mistakes sound off red-alert alarms in his head and scare him away because they create a mismatch with his life needs and relationship needs. He’s basically saying to himself, “She’s not the one. So let’s move on. Who’s next?” And here’s the scariest part… You actually might be perfect for each other, but instead you set off warning signs in his mind and now he may not give you another look because you miss the point on these… [Jump straight to the 5 Conversation Starter Tips]
We will ALWAYS choose a girlfriend based on how she makes us feel around her. Do we feel comfortable being the best version of ourselves? Does she notice and admire the same qualities that most men take pride in about themselves such as:
Avoid bringing up topics or making statements that would make him feel:
Coming across inattentive and focusing the conversation on your achievements and accolades would definitely turn a guy off, but so would the following characteristics during a conversation with him if you came across:
It’s one thing to not draw him into you and so that he finds you irresistible and cannot stand the thought of leaving with your number. It’s a whole other thing to flat out scare him and lose ANY chance whatsoever of connecting with him. That’s how he’d feel if you came across:
I don’t mean that you come across judgmental, rather you find EVERYTHING wrong with EVERY guy. You think this is cute and makes you “hard to get”. The Truth: you make yourself IMPOSSIBLE to get and, therefore, have no chance of learning how to connect with men. No these are not all of them, just five. And yes, sometimes you only have one chance to create a good impression. Of course, this is a simple, short list, but it will alert you to what you might need to change or what to steer clear of. Now let’s look at how to turn it around.
You cannot control if a guy will like you back, but you can certainly control giving yourself a chance. Follow these five simple steps to approach a guy and exchange contact information at the end. Complete these steps within 3-5 minutes then politely excuse yourself. You only goal now is to create the opportunity to speak with him later. Aim to make him feel comfortable talking to you and portray genuine interest in what he says. No matter what the situation is, whether at work talking with a guy for the first time or when you meet someone during the day while you’re out of the house, the concepts will still remain the same. Display confident body language, have fun, show him that you enjoy talking to him and don’t fear showing that you find him attractive. Our biggest fear is making a move on you to show our interest just to find out you don’t like us back. Eliminate our fear: make it obvious that you are attracted to us.
You can choose a playful, cute conversation starter or pay him an authentic compliment.
If you start with something flirty, follow up with a flirty question. If you offer a sincere compliment then ask a question about what you said. Next introduce yourself and offer a friendly, confident handshake.
If he does then you’ve got him. Asking permission to speak with him later is a done deal. Whether you extend an invitation to meet up with him again later or ask to friend him on Facebook, it’s a guarantee. Of course, for now we don’t know if he has a girlfriend, but always look for the ring on his finger to see if he’s married before you begin the conversation. I swear, these 5 simple steps will work, of course, it won’t work all the time because not EVERY guy is going to like you. And that’s fine because you just want to find the one guy you like who likes you back. HOWEVER, if you’d like more in-depth training to meet men offline and learn to invite them to come to you while avoiding rejection then I have someone in mind who can help you. I’d like to refer you to my friend and dating coach for women Camille Virginia from MasterOfflineDating.com who specializes in meeting men in real life situations.
I just finished reading my friend Camille’s 58-page guide how to almost effortlessly flirt and meet single men offline in real-life situations. Honestly, I’m shocked that a FREE guide contains such detailed and powerful the tips. Plus she includes the audio version and a cheat sheet to go with it. Think I’m full of s—, check out what Camille’s free Dating App Detox package teaches you.
So no dating guide I’ve ever seen is perfect, but this one is darn close.
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Thank you for sending me the link to Camille’s dating detox. Also, you mentioned in your last reply (thank you so much by the way for your reply!) that you are in Florida. I live in Florida also. I am in south Florida and the guys are awful!!!! I have no idea where the successful high quality men are??!!! It’s like finding a needle in a haystack and I don’t even know where the haystack is??? 🤦🏼♀️
Best,
Heidi
Well, luckily you have me to help. Have you considered a new strategy and more importantly a new mindset?
I’m trying to create a new mind set. Haven’t created a new strategy yet. I go out running errands but of course we have masks on. I do my hair and dress cute. It’s not even a situation where I can’t get guys to approach me. I don’t seem to be finding anyone I would want to talk to.
You won't know much about a man until you've talked with a man at least a few times. Of course, if he's rude or disrespectful, then he doesn't deserve a chance. Let's talk via email about this. I sent an email yesterday, that you can respond to.
Ahh ok thank you for your prompt reply and for offering to check with Camille. By the way, I’ve already downloaded your Meet Mr Right IRL. I’m anxious to read it!! I am so sick and tired of the little boy games these online guys play. It would be just wonderful to meet a kind, successful high quality man IRL. But obviously I need major help with how to accomplish this 🤷🏼♀️. Definitely don’t want your GF to kill you lol!
Thank you,
Heidi
I agree. I always enjoyed meeting women IRL situations, part of being a guy and the thrill of the approach ha,ha. Plus, it's just more romantic, right? So, I want to help relationship-seeking women find relationship-seeking men. You never know where or when you will meet the RIGHT man for you. So, be prepared at any moment. In my eBook I suggest ways that we as men like you to show us "the green light" to increase the odds that we will approach you. We like the chase but we do NOT like feeling like creeps when a woman gives us that look that says, "Eww, why are you talking to me? Get away from me." We want a little challenge but we want to know that we have a good chance of winning your affection. BTW Camille told me that she stopped offering the Detox eBook at the start of the pandemic because it seemed awkward to promote ways to meet people IRL with most of the country being in lockdown. She might offer it again in the future. Here in Florida, many people are still going out (in SAFE ways too, do not believe the hype of the news- but yes, there are some dummies out there too not acting safely). I still think you can meet men IRL even now. Heidi check your email, I'm going to mail you something.
Actually, I think Camille and I miscommunicated. I found where she stills offers the Dating App Detox. Here's the link to the page to get her Dating App Detox. https://www.masterofflinedating.com/secrets-of-offline-dating/ Keep scrolling down until the opt-in box pops up.
Hello! I am not able to download Camille’s Dating Detox App free ebook. I tried all options and it goes to the website but then it says “something went wrong”. Please help with how I can access this ebook???!!!!
Thank you in advance,
Heidi
It looks like she doesn't offer it anymore. I'll have to reach out to her. But for now, here is what she offers on this page https://www.offlinedatingmethod.com/challenge/. I'll check if I still have a copy of it to send to you too. You might have to give me a few days. Sorry, I have to stop working now or my GF will kill me. hahaha. Plus, you could get my free 120-page eBook Finding Mr. Right IRL? here's where to get it... https://orlando800.lpages.co/finding-mr-right-irl/