10 Kinky and Cute Text Messages to Make Him Chase

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The power of cute text messages can change the course of a relationship.

Simple one or two-line text messages make him chase and take you and your man to the next level.

Done right and your man will peek at his phone every few seconds waiting in anticipation to continue the back-and-forth teasing.

This is the second post I’ve written sharing the texting secrets I’ve used on women and vice versa to build up sexual attention and attraction.

The first exceeded my expectations and has been shared nearly 5000 7000 times so far.

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Texting Magic

Why are texts so magical?

What’s the difference between saying the same thing in person versus in word format over the phone?

And what can you do to get him to respond and make him chase?

One thing I’ve noticed about other posts on the same subject specifically designed for women to text men is that many lack technique and mystery.

I cringe when I read them because, for one, the author doesn’t provide the context with which to send them.

The kind of text message you send a guy depends on what stage of courtship or a relationship you’re in and what you have done together and said to one another.

If you sent a text message like: “I am the luckiest woman on the planet because I have such a cute, sexy and funny boyfriend like you. I hope we can be together forever, I love you!”, too soon in the relationship before he gave you any indication that he felt the same way then you risk scaring him away.

These kinds of cute text messages reveal too much.

They lack mystery and playfulness.

Give him a reason to chase.

Only give him a small sample of pleasure.

Make him ask for more.

Cute text messages can also be kinky and sexy, regardless of the stage of your relationship.

Make it fun for him and tease him.

This is what us men like.

It’s also a texting technique that has been used on me by the women in my life to get me to respond and play along.

This technique can earn a man’s trust and get him to open up to share his feelings with you and then obsess over you taught in Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

This secret weapon will get him to engage with you more often in texts and feel more present in your conversations.

And it has stared at you in the face the whole time.

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10 MORE Kinky and Cute Text Messages to Make Him Chase

1. ¿Te confieso un secreto? 😉

Whether he knows Spanish or not, it doesn’t matter.  Texting in Spanish (or any other language) is both kinky and cute.

You’re making the first move but then it forces him to take action. If he doesn’t understand what you’re saying he’ll likely Google it because he’s dying to know what you wrote.

If he Googles a translated response in Spanish then you know you got him!

Of course, this method works especially well if you are Latina and he is not Latino.

Very flirty!

And if you don’t speak Spanish just Google the translation. The translation won’t always be perfect but that’s beside the point.

Have some fun with foreign language cute text messages.

I’ve used this one on women and they eat it up.

It will certainly work for you provided the guy has shown some signs of liking you.

2. Stalkers are creepy. But I’d make an exception if you did.

A girl sent me something similar once and it definitely turned me on.

I text her that I was checking on her while she was at work to make sure she was okay.

She asked if I was stalking her.

When I said, “No”, she displayed her disappointment and wished that I was.

Put the power in your hands.

This is a cute way of saying that he is chasing you and super flirty.

Kinky and cute text messages with an element of risqué and charm will get him to respond.

3. I can think of several dark places I’d like to meet up.

Yep, super flirty and cute.

Make sure you only send this to a guy who has already started flirting with you.

Of course, you can take a risk with a shy guy and take kinky to a higher level.

Insinuating kinky scenarios maintains mystery and forces him to ask for details and play along.

Again, the key to successful texting with men is to get them to chase and respond.

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4. Something about you popped in my mind and I’ve been smiling ever since.

“Sh–, what is it?”, he’ll wonder.

“Is it sexy, cute or is she just being nice?”

Leaving out the details creates a lot of mystery and work very well with men you just met.

It eliminates the risk of saying too much and scaring him off while forcing him to ask for the rest of the details.

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5. How do you lower my defenses so easily you devil?

In my subscriber bonus eBook, “Next Level Connection: 3 Principles to Develop Deep Emotional Connection with Your Man” I describe how in Principle #1: Feeling Good Enough for Her means that we want to feel like we make her happy and give her what she needs.

ALL of us men want to feel like we have the power to break through her barriers to get her to like and trust us.

Whenever a woman has told me something like this line here I take it as a major compliment and turn on.

Adding the “devil” part adds the kinky frosting on top!

Cute text messages can be charming, flirty or both.

6. Princess or vixen? Which would you choose?

Alternate choice questions are both easy and fun to answer.

It also serves accomplishes two things at the same time.

One, it gives you a chance to learn more about him and two, it’s flirty.

While yes you could ask a regular question inquiring about his tastes like, “Walk on the beach or downtown roof top bar?”, it lacks fun and excitement.

Even shy guys want a girl with an edge.

If you don’t like the word “vixen” then change it for “she-devil” or another synonym.

7. Guess what I’m NOT wearing?

Okay, so I admit this one is a little racier.

But it works!

He’ll definitely respond.

And based on your personality and the situation you can make it kinky or an innocent tease: “a hat”, “lipstick”, “shoes”, etc.

But once you turn him on then you will have to respond in some kind of kinky way or you risk annoying him.

8. Ouy (x) dluoc I hsiw yllaer I.

You’re probably like, “What the hell is this?”

And that’s what I want.

Because if I sent you a backwards text you’d either pick up on it and try to respond back backwards or ask me what I wrote.

Either way I got you to respond and play along.

And that’s the goal of kinky and cute text messages: MAKE HIM CHASE and play the game with you.

Plus, here it’s a combo technique.

I left a fill-in-the-blank to make the guy ask what information is missing.

And once again you can customize your response to your relationship stage with him and how you have previously both interacted.

Make it super kinky or just keep it innocent and charming with something like: “Give you a big wet kiss on your cheek you goof.”

Tease him about thinking dirty.

9. I’m frustrated. (He asks why). I’m soaking wet out of the shower and don’t have a towel.

Visual imagery gives him no choice but to picture what you describe.

Of course, you are acting like a bad little girl by pretending to be innocent.

This is a risk-free way to turning him on against his will which, of course, is super flirty and kinky while staying cute and charming.

Don’t be surprised if he starts to get frisky so make sure this is what you’d want before you send a powerful text message like this.

10. If I had three wishes you’d be the first.

Cute, simple and it doesn’t go overboard.

You’d only use this one if you have both shown affection for each other.

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Summary of Kinky and Cute Text Messages to Make Him Chase

Know when to use them.

The safest route is to wait until he has shown signs of liking you.

Of course, you could use many of these on your boyfriend or husband.

But no matter what the situation, making a game of it and adding an element of mystery will ALWAYS work regardless of your relationship stage.

Use techniques that get him to respond.

Don’t just get in the habit of saying whatever is on your mind.

If he plays along and engages then it means he likes what you’re saying.

If he doesn’t respond then he may not like you for more than a friend or you didn’t send something that catches his attention.

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