So, you want to turn the new guy on with flirty texts and make him chase?
Nothing overly seductive.
Just cute and flirty to get him to ask you out again or turn the heat dial up a few notches.
But you don’t want to annoy him or say something to push him away.
After all, you’ve not known him that long.
Maybe you’ve dated a few months or are just talking and haven’t even gone out yet.
My name is Orlando, I run this blog, as a guy, I can tell you we can get annoyed pretty easily.
That’s why knowing some of our key emotional triggers comes in handy.
And I’m here to help.
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The key to winning with new guys (really any guys actually) with flirty texts is to believe you are the “prize-to-be-won”.
You gotta believe it.
Then practice it until you own that mindset.
When you do, you will be able to a) create mystery about you that he can’t resist finding more about, b) tap into his
instincts to want to be a hero and help you OR c) simply to have fun with him.
All of these serve as magnetic traits that make you irresistibly appealing and someone he’s more likely to want to spend time with.
We don’t want to invest time with a girl who’s too serious or has little that stands out about her.
Let me show you what I mean.
We will look at 10 categories of flirty texts in this post with copy-and-paste examples that you can send.
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Get him to respond and turn him on.
The more compelling and attention-grabbing your texts, the more he’ll want to look at them.
And the more he’ll sit around in anticipation waiting for you to send texts, especially flirty texts.
“Guess what” questions bait him into responding and interacting, especially if he knows that you’re thinking about him.
You could even tease him more by appearing to change your mind like you don’t want to tell him.
Text him “Nevermind. I’m too afraid to say/too shy to say.”
It’ll make him even more anxious to find out what you’re thinking.
Whether a flirty joke, moment or comment, bring it back up from a recent in-person interaction or text conversation.
Your goal with these flirty texts could either be to give him the green light to ask you out, just to have some fun, engage in conversation or set up an intimate or kinky moment next time you meet up.
Check out these possibilities.
Allude to a question left unanswered or something that came up in a previous discussion.
Drop in some unexpected flirty texts in the middle of his day or at the end of the night.
Fun and short.
Flirty emoji texts and emoji math texts express a lot in short spurts.
They work great for inside jokes too.
Talked about cuddling by the fireplace?
Send a fire and hug emoji.
🔥 + 🤗
Made out in the rain? Or talked about it?
Send an umbrella and lips emoji.
☔ + 💋
Discussed a getaway trip to the beach?
Suitcase and palm tree on beach.
💼 + 🏖
You get the idea.
Now check out these options to get your creative juices flowing.
Consider nicknames you made for each other or send reminders of a special moment you shared (first kiss, first date, first gift, etc.)
My girlfriend likes to bite my neck so I gave her the nickname “shark” (tiburón in Spanish) and I can act like a cat- one moment I want you around the next I want no one around.
So, she could send this…
🦈 + 🐈= 🍷 + 🍽🌙 (She’s inviting me to dinner and wine tonight).
You could use the same idea to give him the green light to ask you out.
Make it flirtier…
🍷+🥩= 👄 (Take me out for wine and steak and I’ll kiss you).
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These flirty texts reveal something you felt that turned you on during an in-person interaction with him.
These short flirty texts put you in control and turn him on at the same time.
Make up a scenario where he fantasizes about you.
Just make sure he knows that you’re teasing him and flirting at the same time.
Devise a devious, funny and fun, made-up plan.
Set the expectations that you know how to have a good time.
These are less flirty than they are fun, but yet some are SUPER flirty- as you’ll see.
You want him to see that you won’t always be serious and instead act spontaneously and maintain a “go with the flow” attitude.
These make for better back-and-forth text conversations rather than just one-shot deals.
But I want to keep things simple.
You’ll get the idea from this list of ideas and you can take it from there.
Let’s start with a list of pretend, made-up scenarios that you could bring up in a text conversation.
Out of context, these sound stupid and ineffective, but they work.
The concept works.
Read this list first then we’ll look at some example texts incorporating the scenarios.
Now let’s look at some example texts with these ideas in mind.
Some of these will just start the conversation. The point is to get him involved and engaged in the fun.
Ever want to ask him for a date but fear coming off desperate?
It’s possible with these short flirty texts.
Most men find strong, confident women who know what they want and go get it sexy.
Furthermore, it makes us feel chosen and appreciated.
Of all the men who approach you that you could choose from you chose us and made it known without a shadow of a doubt that you want more with us.
Check these short flirty texts out.
Getting his attention makes an easier transition to get the ball rolling on a new conversation.
And sending short flirty texts written backwards gets the job done.
You should always do your best to send texts that get a response or at least make him think.
In this case he will likely either ask what you said or he’ll figure it out and play along.
Take any of the short flirty texts from all the different text categories and flip them around backwards.
Either completely backwards letter-by-letter or just word-by-word.
In this last text I used a reverse text generator to flip the sentence around.
Test the waters, gauge how much he likes you with these irresistible short flirty texts.
Plus, gauge how much you like him from his responses.
Create hypothetical scenarios.
These give him the green light to flirt back with you.
They ease into the conversation which teases him and builds up sexual tension, thus leading him to miss you and want to see you soon.
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