Well, it can be illegal depending on your jurisdiction. But if you own the phone that he uses than it likely is not illegal. As far as the app and other ways to catch him cheating digitally you can check out this blog post of mine

It’s tough when you feel your partner getting cold emotionally. What you describe sounded like my ex and the person for whom I launched this site. She would get real protective of her phone. It won’t be easy to get a confession as who really wants to come out and admit they cheated. So either continue to look for evidence by following the advice from my blog posts. If you are concerned about continuing in the relationship then you should have a heart-to-heart convo with her about how she’s been feeling cold emotionally and how she feels about your relationship together. If you’re concerned about her just admitting that she is cheating and not just trying to weasel her way out the relationship without at least admitting to why she wants out then again try some of the tips from my site. Cross reference some pics of her online to see if some social media photos pop up with her and someone else. Look through her posts to see if she comments or tags someone else. Or even check her friends posts to see if she pops up there. If you find some social media pics via an image search try to figure out whose account they’re published on. If your account is blocked from it then create another FB or IG account with a fake name to sift through their account (assuming they allow anyone to see the info and photos). If you can pin down a name of someone then sift through their account and even find out what the possible link is to them and your partner (work, ex, gym, etc). BUT ABOVE ALL keep your emotions in check because finding out your partner is cheating can bring us to anger and make us do things that later we regret. Stay safe, please. Sooner or later you will find out the truth. Cheaters get lazy and cannot cover all their tracks.

I have found a lot of evidence, but nothing concrete. Because I’m told it’s illegal to go thru his phone. He lies about everything. Can you please tell me what spy app you had success with? I am sick of his shit.

it was really depressing

Hello, please tell me what’s going on…

Hi iam a south african lady and i need help

Hello, thank you for leaving a comment. First, know that it’s against the law (at least here in the US) to enter someone else’s phone. But I’ll ask is the phone always in the truck? And what info are you looking for?

I’ll approve your commment, but posting to a cheater board site such as this brings high risk lawfully, physically just to mention a few for both people involved in the relationship.