Yep, that’s what I thought too. Just remember that he chose to cheat. And his affair with the younger, incompatible girl is not based on true love, just lust. I wouldn’t doubt that he is struggling from his fears of getting older and feeling like life is slipping past him. And for all we know she could have flirted with him awfully hard. Is that a reason to cheat? No, absolutely not. The question in my mind is did he put himself in a situation of temptation and stay there? I will not lie, when an attractive female hits on you then it feels good to be found attractive, but as a married man you have to know where the fires are and to stay away. He could have been giving her signals to advance too. Sometimes friendly banter can turn sensual. I think most people never see themselves as cheaters and that can control themselves. Ha! Easier said than done.